1. Is stealing to feed a starving child wrong?
I was actually contemplating a similar situation I’ve seen on TV today in which two brothers stole from illegal gamblers to pay their father’s hospital bill, caliming that it’s alright to steal from bad people.
Even though it’s a good cause, stealing is stealing. *Shrugs*
2. If you had to teach something, what would you teach?
I don’t believe I am knowledgeable enough in any topic that I can confidently say I can teach, but if I had to choose, it would be grammar. I’d just need to brush up a little on it, because I feel that I forgot a lot of the terms and rules because I don’t use them as much now as when I was copyediting. My colleagues at work sometimes ask me questions, which helps me a lot in retaining my knowledge.
3. When is it time to stop calculating risk and rewards and just do what you know is right?
When it’s something you’re very passionate about or you really want to do, as long as it’s not dangerous or harmful in any way.
4. Would you break the law to save a loved one?
That’s a very difficult question to ask a law-abiding, obedient, and conscientious citizen. I believe it depends on the seriousness of the crime and whether the person deserves the sacrifice, haha. For example, if it would involve harming an innocent person, I wouldn’t do it, of course. But if it were a misdemeanor, for example, then I might (notice that I still said “I might.” It’s hard to imagine myself shucking off my “perfect citizen” status).
5. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?
I’m not the type who says things before doing them, except when I want to be discouraged. I believe that if I really want to do something, I should keep it to myself, so that if I changed my mind or realized that I’m incapable of it at least it would be between me and myself and I wouldn’t have to endure shame or mockery from other people. It actually turned out—scientifically—that it’s the right thing to do if you actually want to go through with decisions, because telling people beforehand subconsciously discourages you, and you eventually give up on them, but not in all cases, of course.
6. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?
That they’ll never be able to make everyone happy. So they should do what makes them happy, regardless of what other people think, as long as it’s nothing wrong or dangerous.
7. If the average human lifespan was 40 years, how would you live your life differently?
I would’ve already immigrated to Canada to gotten my dream job and not worried about getting a master’s degree. Life would be too short for that!
8. What do we all have in common besides our genes that makes us human?
Besides our shared lifestyle as well (going to school, getting a job, having a family), we have our empathy and sympathy toward each other. Of course, people have them at varying degrees (and some have none), but it’s the norm that we do.
9. If you could choose one book as a mandatory read for all high school students, which book would you choose?
Notes On a Nervous Planet by Matt Haig, because it’s written for this age. While I was reading it, I felt that it’s a must read for teenagers, because it could be life changing for them. It teaches very important lessons about life and how we should live it to be happy and productive. Teenagers usually focus on the petty aspects of life, because their perspective of it is very narrow, and since they’re at a stage in which their personalities and identities are not yet fully formed, they tend to be easily influenced by social media (which is also addressed in the book).
10. What’s something you know you do differently than most people?
I eat pizza slices backward, because I want to get rid of the boring crust first and then indulge in the flavorful and cheesy tip.
11. Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?
I’m more worried about doing the right things. What’s the point of doing something wrong the right way?
12. What is the one thing you would most like to change about the world?
I would disband all armies, so countries would resort to non-violent means of resolving disputes.
13. Where do you find inspiration?
I find it in simple acts of kindness and in hard-working people.
14. If we learn from our mistakes, why are we always so afraid to make a mistake?
No one likes to “learn the hard way,” because it would involve either pain or shame, and a mistake is a mistake; it doesn’t matter what we get from it.
15. What is the most defining moment of your life thus far?
Finding out that I suffer from social anxiety, OCD, and inferiority complex. Even though I have them in mild form, learning that I have a problem, that has a name and a cure, changed my life.